Sunday, January 24, 2010

Sunday...a day of rest. NOT!!!!!!!

Today was the craziest kind of days.  Ugggh!  Not my favorite kind.  It's been the kind that leaves you way overdue for bed long before 9 p.m.!  It was CRAZY!  We knew we were not heading to church this morning when Clara came down with a fever and sore throat yesterday.  We KNEW today would be a day to just be quiet and be still.  Except that we spent all day yesterday house hunting.  And I DO mean pretty much all day long.  We left at 10 a.m and did not even think about getting back home until after 3:00.  We found THE  house.  The house we loved.  The house that just stood out SO far and beyond all of the others.  THE house!  THE house also happened to be somewhat overpriced.  BUT...after not being able to come to terms on 4 other houses to this point....AND the fact that this house was SO totally awesome and head and shoulders above any of the others...we proceeded with a "too high for this market" offer...and we waited.  This morning we had a counter offer from the seller...and we headed back over to the house for one more look before committing.  We loved it...again.  So we signed on the dotted line, gave up the check and.....waited.  By not too long after lunch time today it was ACCEPTED!!!!  Not only did we get the house....but the seller agreed to leave the stainless steel fridge, the gorgeous, to die for bar stools she had, an awesome mirror, the dining nook table AND the formal dining room furniture.  ALL rolled into the price of the house!  Cha ching!!!!!  And hooray!  So THAT was very exciting.  What was NOT very exciting was my poor sweet Clara running a kick butt fever and having a sore throat.  However...I am still, thankfully, equipped with the better part of a bottle of the cat's claw that was prescribed for her before, and we began an all out battle on this thing yesterday and continued today.  She was MISERABLE this morning.  Her little cheeks were just glowing and she was FREEZING.  A good part of the morning looked like this....

and like...
But after a while...once her ibuprofen started to kick in...she started to look a lot more like this...

And this.....


And this....!

Eating is a good thing!!!!  By the time she went to bed tonight, she was resting so much more comfortably and was all snuggled in her bed and she was only minimally uncomfortable.  I am SO hoping that we are able to cut this whole little illness off at the pass before it becomes a major event!  That...and she really does not need to miss any more school.  She has already been out for 10 days.  And Texas is so sweet to send you a kind of nasty gram every time your kid misses just a couple of days of school at a time reminding you of the  Compulsory Education Law and the attendance requirements, blah, blah, blah and so on and so forth.  Grrrr.  I'm not a fan of those things!    Anyway.  It's been a long day....but a good day.  Tomorrow is Monday and we will be off and running like crazy!  Again!

Friday, January 22, 2010

Friday january 22. 2010

That whole typing of the 2010 is still throwing me for a loop!  I seem to screw it up every single time!  The new year always does that to me.  What's new with us?  Well, for starters...my throat hurts this morning.  It seems I have my own post nasal drip to deal with.  Boo.  I am now on my third cup of coffee for the morning trying to soothe it some.  No good can come of three cups of coffee...this I know.  And yet...I keep on pouring them up and sucking them down!  

I spent all day yesterday house hunting.  And by all day...I MEAN all day.  I started at 9 a.m. with my friend and we went hard at it until after 1:00.  We grabbed a quick lunch, and then I headed home to be back in time to get Miss Clara at the bus.  When I got home, there was a call from our realtor with the newest counter from the sellers  on the house Jim and Jackie are attempting to buy.  They countered back RIDICULOUSLY high...and wanted to just remind us...again...that the house has a new $11,000 roof and that it did appraise at $295,000.  Well HELLLOOOOOOO people...1) you can't sell a house without a roof.  Period.  And 2) you don't sell a house based on it's APPRAISED value...but on it's MARKET value.  Grrrrrr.  And these crazy people have the house listed nearly $40,000 OVER market value.  And so.  The ball came back to us...again.  As Jackie and I talked about all of that, she said that she'd been doing some thinking....and lead to a whole other game plan....and before we knew it, we were back in the car and heading out to a neighborhood with brand new homes,  one of which she had seen and really, really liked.  The one we were really aiming to see, we found out had sold JUST LAST NIGHT.  Go figure.  However...the other one which we had seen and loved, and actually has a much better floorplan and resale value was still for sale.  And so...we made an offer on THAT one.  And now...Friday morning...we are sitting and waiting for an answer on THAT  one!  After we got home from that house last night, I sat down and mapped it...because it's a good bit farther out than the last one.  And, to my delight, I discovered that we have been going WAY out of the way to get to the house and that there is a much shorter and more direct route!  The house is just 6.6 miles from us.  I want to go redrive it this morning...but at this point am afraid that I will jinx it if I drive out there to it.  I can't tell you how sad I would be if I drove out there, found my golden, shorter route...then had it all fall through!  And so...I'm sitting here.....waiting...again.  

Today is Friday.  With NOTHING on the horizon!  Woo hoo!  I am hitting the gym at some point today.  With or without my workout buddy.  I am waiting to hear from her about whether or not she will get to join me this afternoon!  If not...then I will probably  just get on in there and get it over with!  And that's it.  Life...in a nutshell.  Not a thing going on and i rather like it that way!!!!

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Praise God, I think it's just allergies that have the kids irritated in the throat.  All three are complaining...along with pretty much every single other person in north Texas right about now.  So, disaster averted...for now!  

This week has been warm...and sunny.  For the most part.  Pretty much my very most favorite weather combination!!!! Although today was certainly cloudy and misty.   So far...I have house hunted for Jim and Jackie.  We found one and made an offer.  They countered (as we were certain that they would), and now we have countered back and are waiting for an answer.  I had lunch with my work out buddy (in lieu of working out!) and her sweet little girl and Clara got to come along since she was out of school!  Us four ladies had a LOVELY time!  What else?  I got a whole new hair do...who would have thought?!  Everyone thus far seems to really like it...so I guess I'll roll with it for a while.  Here's a peek at it. 

 I ran 5 miles on Monday and another 7 today.  My poor workout partner has been swamped and keeps having to see patients over lunch...so I've been on my own this whole week.  Not nearly as fun...but I've been productive...so it's okay.  Having a busy doctor as your midday workout partner isn't the most reliable I guess...but it's better than nothing!  Or noone I should say!  And when she DOES make it...it's fun, fun, fun!  

And now...Wednesday night...I am heading off to take Clara to gymnastics.  Chris is in Barbados.Well, actually, he's done in Barbados and should be in South Carolina for a meeting tomorrow morning.  It's Humpday!  And I am looking forward to the weekend!  Why?  Absolutely no reason.  There is not one thing planned.  But I love a sleep Saturday morning where we aren't rushing to get kiddos out the door!  Tomorrow I am helping my workout buddy house hunt (because I just can't seem to get enough of that!) and then...well...who knows?  Gearing up for Friday I guess!!!  And Friday night is the official kick off of our "no plans" weekend!  Ain't life grand?!  It's a good day in Texas!!!!


Sunday, January 17, 2010

Spoke too soon?

I hope I didn't shoot myself in the foot with that last post talking about how GREAT my Clara is feeling!  She's not feeling so hot tonight.  She is complaining of a sore throat and her glands are a wee bit swollen...uggggh!  I gave her the cat's claw and hit her with her vitamins.  Lots of fluids also.  AND her allergy pill.  I am hoping this might be an allergy issue...everyone around here seems to be complaining about them right now.  In addition to her throat, she keeps complaining about her eyes bothering her...which could also be allergy.  And so....Miss Clara is fully medicated tonight...on every front...and I am SO hoping we wake up feeling super groovy tomorrow!  On the bright side, there is no school tomorrow or then next day!  So she has another two days to rest!  Here's hoping and praying and praying and praying!!!!

Saturday, January 16, 2010

Catching Up

It's Saturday morning here in Texas.  And it's raining...how unusual!  Just kidding...it ALWAYS seems to rain here.  And everyone will tell you how unusual this weather is.  It's been "unusual" for so long and is, at this point, the only weather I know.  So it's pretty much the usual for this sunshine loving gal!

What has happened this week?  Well, let's see.  Our PeePaw Jim went BACK to the hospital again on Wednesday.  He had not been feeling well pretty much since he came home from the hospital the Friday before.  But on Wednesday it all kind of peaked out and we knew he was in a lot of pain and quite sick.  So sick, that we ended up having to call an ambulance to help us transport him to the hospital.  For a short time there we were fearing the worst, but were relieved to find out it was only a case of kidney stones.  I'm sure, that for PeePaw going through it, it was more like KIDNEY STONES and it really sucked.  But we were very relieved at the diagnosis.  He is still there at the hospital, working out some kinks and getting well and rested, but is doing well!  We expect him home....this time for GOOD tomorrow or the next day.  

All of this hospitalization has certainly slowed our house hunting efforts.  But that's really no big deal because there really has not been a whole lot on the market to look at right now.  Our realtor assures us that there will be lots coming on in the next weeks here, so we are not feeling any rush to snatch up one of the few, poor prospects that are out there right this second.  I'd hate to do that and then have their "dream house" come on the market in a couple of weeks.  No...this will NOT be a hasty decision!  I just know something amazing and perfect that they love will present itself when the time is right.  In the meantime, everyone has settled in here fairly nicely and there is a nice routine rolling along!

We DID have some excitement here this past week...as though having the ambulance and fire truck coming for Pee Paw was not enough!  In the midst of all of THAT excitement, Chris was, of course, out of town.  So when Jackie headed to the hospital with Jim, it was just me and the kids...as usual.  Ben and Clara had gone to bed and Maxwell and I were sitting in the kitchen chatting right before bedtime, when all of a sudden I was sure I saw someone dash by my driveway door wearing a white sweatshirt hoodie and jeans.  Maxwell saw the look on my face, and asked me what I saw, but I told him it was nothing.  That I just thought I had seen something...but was sure I didn't.  I casually got up, checked to make sure all of the doors were locked and then he and I continued chatting.  A few minutes later, the phone rang and I had to go into the study in the front of the house to hunt down a phone.  I sat there for just a few short minutes, chatting with Chris as he checked in on us and then hung up.  As I headed back into the kitchen to Max, I saw him coming down the stairs with his night vision goggles.  He headed to the family room windows with them.  I asked him what he was doing.  And he told me that he thought he had seen someone in a white shirt and jeans run by the back windows.  So he got his goggles to look for them.  At that moment my heart practically jumped up in my throat and for the first time in many moons I was more than a little alarmed and scared to be home by myself.  I rechecked all the doors and then called my neighbor across the street.  She quickly sent her husband over to check on the yard and house, but not before telling me that there have been a LOT of break ins in this area and that I needed to call the police.  Well....I really did not WANT to call the police, escpecially since I had already summoned the sirens once that very morning!  After Mark checked everything and I knew noone was there, I calmed down and was fine.  Well...I was as jumpy as a cat on a hot tin roof really...but I TOLD myself I was just groovy.  I did put in a call to the non-emergency police number and let them know what I had seen.  They were very nice and at my insistence did not send out an officer.  The NEXT morning, Max went to let the dogs outside and as he came back inside, the outside doorknob at the back door fell off in his hand.  He's like..."umm  Mom...the door broke!"  I wasn't too worried about it...but then Max said that someone had messed with it or else it wouldn't fall off like that.  I discounted THAT thought very quickly, and did not worry over it, especially since Chris was coming back home that very night.  When he got home, I showed him the door.  And at first he thought it was no big deal and said he could fix it.  Then, upon looking at it some more and the way it worked, he wasn't at all sure that the lock had not been tampered with.  He realized that you can pull out the entire locking mechanism, and that someone would be able to slip that out of the lock, take it to the hardware store, and have a set of keys made to our home!!!!  And so...a little more freaking out at that point for sure!!!!  And so...last night, as soon as Chris got home from work, we all headed out to the store and bought new locks for all of the doors, along with motion detector lights to be installed outside and all manner of other security gizmos.  Nearly $700 later...I think we will all sleep a little sounder and feel a little safer!  And so...today's project is to INSTALL new locks on all of the doors and get those motion detectors up...before Chris has to go out of town again!  I'm SO not wimpy about being home alone with him out of town...or at least, I never have been before.  However...I will sleep better if I know all of this is done.  I should say...I'll SLEEP....PERIOD!  

What else?  This rainy Saturday is fairly non eventful beyond the security overhaul.  I'm going to meet a friend later to see what she is hoping can be a new office for her since her other one got totally ruined by water damage.  It's right around the corner and I can't wait to see it!  Then later tonight, we are claiming the media room and watching ourselves some "chick flicks"!  The boys are planning to use it the rest of this day I think for video games!  And THAT about sums it all up for us.

Clara continues to be healthy and to act like the sparkling, bright, sweet, bubbly child that we know and love.  She has been back at school now for two full weeks and has stayed healthy!  She is coming up on the one month mark for being healthy AND antibiotic free!  She has been on a non stop course of antibiotics and illness since early October!  So we are excited to know that she's finally made it a whole month!!!!  She seems to be happier at school also...I think feeling better just makes everything in life go a little smoother!  She's having play dates and is back in her gymnastics class again.  She's enjoying participating in PE and recess again.  All in all...2010...despite the security scares and poor Pee Paw's kidney stones...is all going very well!    We are feeling somewhat settled into life here, are being blessed by friends and are just enjoying life as Texans.  I do still miss the desert...especially this time of year.  It's so beautiful and warm and sunny there!  Not to mention the people I dearly love that are still there.  But I'm finding Texas a bit easier to call home with each and every passing week.  Life is good in the Lone Star State.

Friday, January 8, 2010

My Sweet Clara

January 8, 2010

still so hard to believe it is january of 2010!   here's the latest...  jim and jackie rolled in on dec. 27th.  we spent the week enjoying the kids, doing some house hunting and just settling in and catching up on rest.  on sunday, jim had a horrible cough and rattly breathing, so we took him up to the hospital er and he was promptly admitted with a case of pneumonia!  5 days later, he's still up there, but we are hoping that today is the day that he gets released to come home!  

the kids all went back to school on monday.  the transition back has been quite smooth. clara has had a great week and has been her sparkly, smiling self and has stayed healthy...at least this week!  she IS however, antibiotic free and has been feeling great now for going on 2 full weeks and THAT is something to celebrate!  she went back to gymnastics wednesday night and had a blast.  she was SO happy to be back there and flipping and turning and cartwheeling!  the boys have had a really productive week of studying and I have seen both of them making good efforts to really sit down and crack the books.  it helps that during the week now the Roberts family is "status unplugged"...meaning no t.v., no video games, and no computer unless it is for a school related project.  it's also been FREEZING outside so they've not been in a hurry to run outside and find their friends either.  all in all it's created a wonderful environment for studying!  even clara is reading for an hour and a half at a time!  

i found a workout buddy here.  she's fun and i enjoy her company and it's awesome to have some accountability again.  we meet every monday, wednesday and friday afternoon at the gym and have a great, solid hour's workout, then scoot out to get on with the rest of the day and picking up of children, etc.  it really makes the workout go by so much faster when you have a friend to chat with and i find myself really, really looking forward to workout days now!  which i SO need right about now.  hopefully, the accountability and keeping track of my weight watchers points will help to get some of this "insulation" under control!

i feel like i may freeze to death.  it's 16 degrees right now.  wicked cold.  miserable!!!!  the air is so cold it's painful when it hits your skin.  i can't seem to get warm.  my hands are so cold...even inside in the heat that they hurt and i feel like my fingers are losing sensation.  it is hard to type this it's so cold.  

that's about it for now.  i'm too cold to type any more!!!!!!  i have to go move around before i freeze solid!  

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Update 1-2-10

Wow...seems so strange to type 2010!  The new year throws me for a loop for a good month or two every single year.  In my last post our Clara had been so sick and still was.  We were referred to an ENT after a repeat case of strep throat and she was ready to yank out Clara's tonsils and adenoids on Dec. 29th.  We set up the surgery and headed home with our "answer", but after a day or so I told Chris that I had absolutely NO peace about that surgery and that I did not feel like that was the direction that we should go right now. We struggled with a lot of things and for a short time came to the conclusion that we were going to home school Clara, hoping to keep her home and out of the cess pool of germs for a time and see if that would help with her endless illness situation.  But I had no peace about that either.  I simply did not want to go back to that.  I've homeschooled the boys before.  I KNOW what that involves and I really felt like that would NOT be a good choice for us.  In response to all of the stress involved with Clara, my shoulder managed to work itself into such a knot that I was unable to turn my head.  Finally Chris said enough was enough and insisted I make an appointment with my chiropractor.  I adore her...she's a sweet, sweet Christian lady and we hit it off instantly from our very first visit.  So I made my appointment and headed in.  She was all smiles when I walked in, ushered me back to her office, asked me how I was and told me I looked like I needed a hug...and that's the exact moment that I pretty much fell apart.  I told her all about Clara, who she had met before and what we were thinking.  She was great with suggestions and asked if we had considered or would consider any alternative therapies.  I told her we were game for anything that might keep my baby girl out of surgery.  So the very next day, she saw Clara as a patient, made a couple of minor adjustments, gave her some supplements and 48 hours later....she was a new child!  She felt better.  The white patches of infection and pus on her throat cleared...finally.  Her throat no longer hurt and the dark circles under her eyes disappeared.   And after a week on the herbal stuff the glands in her throat were no longer swollen.  Clara looks better than she's looked in WEEKS...no....months!  She finally looks like our healthy, sparkly Clara again.  And I cannot tell you how grateful I am to my sweet chiropractor friend and her wisdom and compassion.  

In addition to our Clara's health, we are also celebrating the fact that Jim and Jackie sold their house in Tucson and are now here in Texas with us.  The kids are SO excited to have their Gigi and Pee Paw back close again!  I'm pretty sure that Gigi and Pee Paw have enjoyed it also.  

The kids all head back to school on Monday.  I am looking forward to the new year and what it holds for our kids.  I am ANXIOUS to see how Clara's health goes now that we finally have her throat infection really cleared up.  Hoping it's once and for all.  I'm anxious to see how the boys handle their grades.  I'm anxious to find Jim and Jackie a house.  I'm anxious to just get over these next few big humps that I see looming before us.  

So here's looking to the new year!  Cheers!